Ms. Regina
Founder
There comes a point when being the woman who can handle it becomes the reason everyone expects her to.
Her capability is recognized. Her commitment is trusted. Meanwhile, an entire arrangement can form around what everyone knows she will carry.
This is the conversation my work opens.
Hello, I’m Rev. Regina Geames—Founder of BHEIRS™, creator of Responsibility Refined™, speaker, minister, and author.
For more than 20 years, I have created experiences, environments, and conversations for Black Christian women entrusted with people, priorities, and purpose. My work reaches across healthcare, education, ministry, and business—supporting both the women who lead and the organizations connected to their influence.
Responsibility Refined™ gives us room to examine responsibility more closely: how it began, how it has changed, who is participating, and whether the arrangement still honors everyone involved.
Divorce Responsibility™ is the bold entrance into that conversation. It allows a woman to reconsider a responsibility without rejecting responsibility itself.
Some responsibilities deserve commitment.
Some deserve renegotiation.
Some deserve redistribution.
And yes, some responsibilities deserve a divorce.
Through BHEIRS™, I bring this work into healthcare systems, educational institutions, ministries, businesses, and community organizations through speaking engagements, leadership experiences, retreats, certification, and collaborative partnerships. We make room for clarity, shared responsibility, ease, and excellence to exist together.
If you recognize yourself, your team, or your organization in this conversation, let’s talk.
It’s already complicated enough—let’s make it uncomplicated.
“Be still, and know that I am God.”
Psalm 46:10